11 papers down, 4 more to go.

Got this from my mum's self-help book (haha):

Every change no matter how tragic always open the door to more. When we suffer a loss of setback in life, the cause of our suffering is attachment. To let go of our attachment, we need to find love in out hearts again. We mistakenly believe we need someone specific, when what we really need is what that someone provided us with. A special person is special, but what that person provided us with is love, and that can always be found elsewhere.

By letting go, we open the way for something new in our lives. Change is only painful when we cant let go. Sometimes we just have to learn to walk away. If a relationship is coming to an end, instead of playing out long and complicated- and potentially hurtful- end games and learn the art of walking away. If it's dead, leave it.

As Cherie so aptly puts it: "Old one dont go, new one wont come."